1. Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?

https://quokk.au/u/Deceptichum

2. What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?

74 year community ban for ‘homophobia’

3. Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entry (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).

4. Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).

here’s the exchange that resulted in the ban:

5. Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

I’m gay, trans, and an anarchist. I thought the post title was misogynistic, objectifying, and not a good example something that should be in a ‘queer friendly’ space.

Not everyone is okay with sexual degradation humor, misogynistic comments, etc, even if it’s about people you disagree with. Pointing that out in this case got me called a homophobic tankie and banned within minutes of making the post.

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    This was shared in 0 matrix rooms as far as I know.

    If you’re going to call me a tankie just because you don’t like the servers I post in, maybe I should be calling you a nazi for posting in the comm nazi bar loaded with cryptofash posters eager to be free of ‘degenerates’, calling myself and others degenerate roaches that they’re eager to be rid of.

    Calling out a gay person posting a misogynistic thread title is not homophobia

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      I’m calling you a tankie for being a member of a tankie instance.

      You weaponised claims of homophobia to try to silence criticism of China/Russia. And to make it worse, you tried to conflate being queer with an insult.

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        as I said in another post here, I didn’t say you were being homophobic, that was your accusation.

        I did not conflate being queer with an insult.

        I was pointing out that your post title was misogynistic. Gay people can still be putting their internalized misogyny into the world, and I would hope a queer space would discourage that, rather than have it actively defended by moderation.

        Ironically it is you who is using claims of homophobia to silence another gay person criticizing your behavior.

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          I didn’t say you said I was being homophobic.

          I said you were conflating the word cumrag with lgqbt+ peoples, which is certainly a homophobic act.

          If I simply wanted to silence the tankie fucks I wouldn’t have only banned you.

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            I said you were conflating the word cumrag with lgqbt+ peoples

            I wasn’t though. I was pointing out that using cumrag as an insult broadly was not in line with being a ‘queer friendly’ instance, as it is overtly misogynistic.

            You seemed intent on misreading it so you could slap ‘homophobic’ on another gay person calling your shitty behavior out.

            I didn’t say you said I was being homophobic.

            You weaponised claims of homophobia to try to silence criticism of China/Russia.

            Which is it then?