• andros_rex@lemmy.world
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    16 minutes ago

    Actual advice:

    Your job is not to explain to the person what they are feeling is not real or rational. This is actively unhelpful. The experience is very very very real to the person undergoing it.

    Remember that your body is chemicals. There are chemical systems that exist to tell you that you are in immediate, life threatening danger. These chemicals are able to override everything else - it is clearly evolutionary favorable to be able to just be on high alert sometimes.

    These chemicals override your ability to reason. In the moment, some sort of physiological, primal reminder of safety. Food is good. Lying down. Touch and kind words from someone you feel safe around. Something that tells your body crisis is over and it is time to activate the parasympathetic nervous system.

    Breathing exercises can be good, but if you do them like a drill sergeant that can make things much worse.

    I’m fortunate at this point I think that I’ve burned out my body out with caffeine and high danger activities, along with experiencing something like Christian hell in a bad weed trip. I don’t think I react properly to danger anymore, but I don’t experience panic attacks annymoe either.

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    In the JJ Abrams Star Trek films, Kirk is shown being a fan of the Beastie Boys. The video for the song “Ch-check It Out” opens with the three Beasties beaming down in TOS-era uniforms. Further, the song “Intergalactic” features the line “like a pinch on the neck from Mr. Spock.”

    Does this mean that, during some off-camera mission, Kirk winds up in the late 20th century and inadvertently inspires the Beasties, who in turn insprire Kirk?

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    4 hours ago

    Last Action Hero solved this paradox. In the fictional universe, everyone is played by Sylvester Stallone.

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    12 hours ago

    Oddly enough, this would work to alleviate a panic attack if somebody was interested…

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      ✋ autistic (woman) here and yes, this is the exact kind of thing I would have picked up on if I watched the sopranos. I watch Gilmore girls but not Sopranos. This would have my mind spinning out 😂

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    13 hours ago

    So do you all think Lorelai got whacked at the end of Gilmore Girls too, or nah?

    sopranos.png

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    12 hours ago

    In the CBS show Ghosts, the kid who played Young Sheldon guest stars as himself and the ghosts recognize him. That implies the ghosts watched him on CBS. Young Sheldon used to air back to back with Ghosts. So what did the ghosts watch in Ghosts time slot right after Young Sheldon?

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    Easy solution:

    Gilmore Girls was a reality show in that universe.

    Tony Soprano was a famous gangster after he got whacked.

    It’s all retcons, all the way down.