As the title says, how often do you admit you’re wrong? Is it different when it’s a factual dispute versus something more subjective?
I make an effort to concede early if I’m in error. I think because my mother almost never admits fault. She’ll fall back to “that’s not what I meant” or similar deflections first, and that’s really annoying.
The last big factual error I made was about the distance of walking, and that’s where I learned about Taxicab Geometry ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taxicab_geometry ).
I think some people believe admitting fault is a sign of weakness, but I find it’s more of a power move. It takes strength to do it, and people can tell when you’re sweating and desperate. Usually it leads to resolving the conflict faster and cheaper, too.
(I expect some people will feel the urge to reply they’re never wrong. I’ll file that under never admits fault.)
often. usually, when it’s something I misjudged. there’s no shame in it - I had x information, I thought it would be a good idea to do y. I forgot to consider z. can’t win 'em all. or yep I screwed I up I did these calculations / tasks wrong because I was rushing.
it’s harder when it’s an “oh shit yeah I was out of line” thing, but I do it whenever I can because I genuinely want to know if I acted appropriately or not
I will always own up to being wrong if I agree that I was wrong. I will be an absolute pain in your ass if I think I’m being blamed for something that’s unfair/untrue.