• essell@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    Yup.

    Guilt and shame do not motivate people to change.

    They can motivate people to hide, but not to change.

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      2 days ago

      This is exactly why you should come to people understandingly, yet firm in your beliefs

      Insults go nowhere.

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        Well yes, if you put thw person in a position they feel attacked they will just defend and at that point it is really hard to do much.