• AskewLord@piefed.social
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    she was using you to get him back.

    fwiw I had a similar experience, though only over 1 year, and she went back to her ex after she demanded I pay off her $100K in debts and I said no. And she threw flower pots at my head after i mentioned I knew she’d been seeing someone else…

    she’s still on dating apps, I see her profile occasionally and she’s using photos from 10+ years ago.

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        all that would do is further entrench traditional gender dynamics.

        nobody would ever believe the lady I’m talking about is abusive and manipulative, because she is pretty and she knows who to manipulative people and play the part of sweet and innocent.

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        There is something like that for women talking about men they date. Groups for the other side though? Taken down immediatly.