Know a guy.

  • Stonewyvvern@lemmy.world
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    16 hours ago

    Been aware of this unwritten rule for a number of years. The people who ask me for help do not. They insult the tradition by trying to give me money…stunch refusal gets me strange looks but invites to weekend bbqs.

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      16 hours ago

      pretty smart move in retrospect - “eternal and obligatory friendship is the only currency I trade in”