- cross-posted to:
- Mimi@lemmy.world
- cross-posted to:
- Mimi@lemmy.world
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/51465593
Damn. I didn’t know that Roy was such a vanilla boy!
cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/51465593
Damn. I didn’t know that Roy was such a vanilla boy!
My ex left me because I wouldn’t rape her, so she found someone who would.
And she wasn’t doing the whole, “revisit your trauma in a situation where you have control,” thing. She was never abused, and didn’t even want there to be a safe word.
Not having a safe word is maybe over the line but I feel like in general that’s just a case of indulging in a partner’s fetishes/fantasies. It isn’t really rape if both of you consented before hand, it’s just role play. That said, I’d probably also want to meet somewhere in the middle, I’d have a hard time continuing if I was being asked to stop, even if consent had previously been given.
Pretty sure somewhere on the internet I read that this was a super common fantasy, but I don’t want to do the research to confirm. There’s probably nuance to it, but it’s definitely uncomfortable to consider.
Can confirm extremely common fantasy.
The no safe word part is absolutely fucking not tho.
The fantasy is common. The no safe word part isn’t.