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    8 days ago

    I think that’s pretty far from assuming good faith in her, which is a rule on this website.

    This would’ve also required the original reply to assume good faith as well. As I stated to CommunistCuddlefish I’m removing the remaining comments in this thread for violations of rules 4 (misogyny), 5 (harassment, demeaning), and rule 14 (not being charitable), see my reply to her a brief explanation and feel free to reach out to me if you’d like further clarification.

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      8 days ago

      I’m also going to reply to this specifically

      The user who deleted their account has repeatedly used bad faith against users and blatantly broken the code of conduct yet nothing is ever done to address this conduct on the site previously.

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          I did question the decision to question CommunistCuddlefish over ashinadash, and not actually address any of the issues raised by CommunistCuddlefish’s post. Which now is deleted by the moderator.

          It shows a clear bias which is disappointing.

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              You come across as dismissive by equating everything said to a “not all men” wall of text which imo is an unfair characterisation. You didn’t address anything brought up by CommunistCuddlefish which I feel were valid points given Serials previous behaviour and confrontations on here. I personally didn’t feel safe around Serial. I also felt she felt it was open season on me because I don’t have pronouns. So to dismiss everything as “not on topic” I feel is quite dismissive in general from someone who is supposed to be unbiased as a moderator.

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        you’ll know that she did not offer a single argument against the ask that this is just white people brainworms

        She specified in her very first reply that she was referring to white men. She also didn’t owe a reply to this specific question, especially as it was framed as dismissive rather than an earnest question,

        Also, if you could just review the deleted comments, why bother her over this instead of me?

        I couldn’t at the time, mods do not have this ability.

        I also have to delete this as it contains a screenshot of a user deleted comment. Honestly I shouldn’t have even asked here what was originally said, that’s my mistake. If you want to show me such things please do so in DMs.

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          8 days ago

          Burning the evidence for this while moderating other users about it is genuinely pathetic but I’ll do as you ask.


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              8 days ago

              You can’t see what SerialExperiments Gay said, which word for word was

              And people on hexbear still get pissed when I state the simple fact that men can never be trusted, only taken out from a safe distance.

              The problem I have with this is not ‘you can’t say men bad’, it’s more that I wonder what this line of thought can lead to other than separatism. And like, feminists in the 1990s figured out already that separatism is a really stupid idea when it comes to gender, for a wide variety of reasons. It’s not a good comment.


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          8 days ago

          Hey hang on a sec, the Code of Conduct doesn’t say shit about deleted comment screenshots. Lying like this is pretty sad as well.


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