I spent half that time in Critical Care (much of that on a ventilator, a small amount sedated), and most of the rest in a specialist neuro-rehab unit. I would have died otherwise.
Fortunately it cost me nothing - Thank Bevan for the NHS - but if I were in the US I imagine I would be financially crippled!
I don’t think suicide really needs a cutsie nickname
I think you’ve hit perfectly why I don’t like the “unalive” and related euphemisms for death. Death, especially violent death, is a big fucking deal, and trying to obscure that impact behind vague or even cutesy words, makes it seem mundane or routine and accessible.
As someone who just last week attended a wake for the suicide of an 11 year old who lived two houses down from us and was one of my child’s friends :thank you for saying that.
Crazy that suicide even crosses the mind of an 11 year old, let alone them actually going through with it.
This is a result of communication being penned in by social media rules. We largely can’t even discuss this serious topic on an open level so unfortunately cutesy nicknames are required when talking about serious issues these days.