I’m the family member no one talk to, on both sides of my family.
I’m not MAGA, so my dad’s side thinks I’m a radical woke far-left democrat pedophile.
On my mom’s side, very long story short, my younger brother isolated, emotionally abused, and cheated on his girlfriend. She found some stuff and started to get suspiciousof him, so he asked me to help him gaslight her. Instead, I showed her proof of everything and offered to help her leave him. She declined my help and decided to kill herself instead.
According to my brother, I betrayed him and her death is my fault. My mom and other brother agree with him. Apparently I should have helped him lie to her because then she’d still be alive. So I don’t talk to any of them.
I’m not sorry. I’d make the same choice again today without hesitation. She needed to know. He’s the one who hurt her, not me. She’s the one who decided to kill herself, not me.
I’m the family member no one talk to, on both sides of my family.
I’m not MAGA, so my dad’s side thinks I’m a radical woke far-left democrat pedophile.
On my mom’s side, very long story short, my younger brother isolated, emotionally abused, and cheated on his girlfriend. She found some stuff and started to get suspiciousof him, so he asked me to help him gaslight her. Instead, I showed her proof of everything and offered to help her leave him. She declined my help and decided to kill herself instead.
According to my brother, I betrayed him and her death is my fault. My mom and other brother agree with him. Apparently I should have helped him lie to her because then she’d still be alive. So I don’t talk to any of them.
I’m not sorry. I’d make the same choice again today without hesitation. She needed to know. He’s the one who hurt her, not me. She’s the one who decided to kill herself, not me.
Yes you did the right thing, you are not responsible. Your brother is and maybe other circonstances in her life.
The real family is the people you choose to have in your life. Take care of yourself
Woah… That seems like the best outcome for you. You can’t pick your family.