• OBJECTION!@lemmy.ml
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    3
    ·
    23 hours ago

    Whether she accepts it or not, I’m done with the conversation. I maintain my position, but I see no point in continuing. If she hates me, she hates me, and she wouldn’t be the first, either way the conversation is over.

    • TheShamMirrors@lemmy.today
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      23 hours ago

      For the record, I have you tagged as one of the more serious people from your instance. I don’t really think there’s a way to be more tactful in some conversations.

      • OBJECTION!@lemmy.ml
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        23 hours ago

        I don’t really think there’s a way to be more tactful in some conversations.

        Perhaps you’re right to an extent, but I at least shouldn’t have called her an idiot. She is correct that it is ablest language, and I know better.

        In any case, when I thought of it in terms of a high person saying something I consider ignorant, irl, of course I wouldn’t go off on them. And when I look at it that way, regardless of whether the person on the other end is high, sober, whatever, sometimes, I could afford to be more patient.

        Depending on the person, of course.

        • chloroken@lemmy.ml
          link
          fedilink
          English
          arrow-up
          2
          ·
          19 hours ago

          The person you’re talking with hates women. Control+F his post history with literally any misogynistic term you can imagine. I’m not sure you’re going to have much luck talking about ableism with them, but you never know.