Terms like “transgender” [T], trans-masculine [TM] or trans-feminine [TF] are equally as informative but not unpleasant and dysphoric as “male-to-female” and “female-to-male”, which by many people are and will be viewed negatively.

Since posting and sexting is supposed to be about about fun and pleasure, I suggest changing the current rules to make space more inviting and accepting for different people. (:

Due to the mod request, I am personally fine with changing my gender tags ([F] (trans)) to [NB] for the time being and abstain from further posting as I’m principally opposed to refering to myself as “male to female” instead of “trans-feminine” or simply “transgender woman”. There is no need to introduce each post with implication of being “half a man” or “formerly a man” and the like.

It’s not that I am deeply offended or pretentious, but rather not taking pleasure from being grouped together with men [M] whenever I want to post something sexy.

P.S. I was otherwise very happy with my experience and enjoyed all the posts, comments and interactions (; <3

Cheers

  • FluyOnTheWall@fedinsfw.appEnglish
    2·
    7 days ago

    Why not put it politely?

    I respect your kinks, but I’m not sure a wide-ranging subreddit like gonewild is the best place to get your fix - even on the F tag.

    • NyxAiri@fedinsfw.appOPEnglish
      3·
      7 days ago

      It can’t be said politely because it’s pure sexism concealed as a kink. Women can be attractive in so many ways that do not involve “breedability” but some people can’t comprehend it - and it makes one wonder if they actually like women 😅

      Edit: I checked and it’s a transphobic troll account made 2 days ago solely to keep posting these comments under my posts so there is no point engaging further as the issue has already been discussed.

      • tits@fedinsfw.appEnglish
        12·
        7 days ago

        Consider “breedable” to be imperfect shorthand that doesn’t capture the entirety of sexual attraction, but provides a simple baseline for using the [F] tag.

        There’s plenty of other tags to use, or !transgonewild@fedinsfw.app

        EDIT: In response to your edit, asking a question and getting an answer you don’t like isn’t transphobia, or trolling. I don’t “keep” doing anything under your posts, and only engaged directly with you in this single post, after you engaged with me.

    • tits@fedinsfw.appEnglish
      12·
      7 days ago

      How would you put that politely?

      I respect your desire for it just be a kink or a fix. I think this community is bigger than just your preferences, however.