32m here and ive been on dating apps for over 10 years and think they’ve gotten worse since the whole swiping algorithm. I always do max swipes daily on fb dating, tinder, and bumble with minimum to no success. Tinder being the worst of the three. Ik irl is better, I just am not good at it with social anxiety and overthinking. Anybody find what works on these apps if you’re an average looking man?

    • ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
      5·
      9 months ago

      do -something- that interests you that’ll get you out and interacting with like-minded people

      But then you meet either normies or other male nerds, depending on whether you pretend to like normal stuff or actually do the stuff you really like.

      I wish old OkCupid was still a thing. There were still way more men than women there but at least it was possible to find the interesting women.