You just live with it. I hate that my kid’s father is who he is, but I can’t change it now. I made the best decision I could with the information I had at the time.
I wouldn’t have left my kid’s dad if I hadn’t become a mother. It took seeing how he treated me through my child’s eyes to realize I couldn’t model a relationship like that without seriously damaging my kid.
It’s amazing how we grow by considering ourselves through the lens of others. I wish I could have supported my mother more during her divorce with my dad
Don’t know. We were very firmly on “team dad” at the time, as he seemed the least emotional about it. Only later we realised what a lying sociopath he actually was…
But we’re all good now, and she got us back, and we’re all the better for it
You just live with it. I hate that my kid’s father is who he is, but I can’t change it now. I made the best decision I could with the information I had at the time.
I wouldn’t have left my kid’s dad if I hadn’t become a mother. It took seeing how he treated me through my child’s eyes to realize I couldn’t model a relationship like that without seriously damaging my kid.
So you just live with it shrug
It’s amazing how we grow by considering ourselves through the lens of others. I wish I could have supported my mother more during her divorce with my dad
Just being her kid was enough support, I promise :)
Don’t know. We were very firmly on “team dad” at the time, as he seemed the least emotional about it. Only later we realised what a lying sociopath he actually was…
But we’re all good now, and she got us back, and we’re all the better for it