mine is perhaps a mastodon with dislikes
a loops like but for youtube shorts instead of tiktok
email (i am not technical but since it is hard to self host email what if someone made a email that could be self hosted that is a part of the fediverse)
and a facebook like that isnt outdated as friendica
Facebook but old school bbs that you self-host on a raspberry pi and every message is encrypted and you can only read it if the poster included you in the recipients.
So that you only see posts from the friends and family members (or other accounts if you are into that) who you follow.
Just a pull based community and not a single push notification in sight.
so it is that you make a post you send it to people and only those people can see it right?
Correct