We met on a dating app, have had two great dates so far, and I’ve been unplugging while traveling on and off. While I am really glad he is making plans for a 3rd date (I first alluded to it when I texted him after my trip), I’m totally confused and wondering if I should ask why he potentially unmatched me on the app and the mixed signals. Are there red flags? Yellow flags? Or is he just trying to play hard to get a little and it’s fair because I’ve been unplugging intentionally during my time off? For full context, please see my previous post. Any insight and advice is appreciated because I am even more flummoxed now than before. Thanks!


I’m just posting to say why tf ppl are downvoting this post? This is a legit post that someone is writing that isn’t somehow garbage.
Person is legit just asking for advice FFS. Why tf are you ppl downvoting?
Means more to me than you know, thank you!
Because its the wrong community and the person is asking for what someone means when likely none of us know either of them. They need to nut up and ask the person directly.
Which community would be better?
!relationship_advice@lemmy.world