Worse: This, but with a fiancée… “Eurgh, you never do any household work!” “Seriously? Sure we can have that discussion, but like… literally while I’m vacuuming?!”
Urgh yeah, the absolute social misplay of using someone’s decision to be productive as an excuse to badger them about how rarely they are productive.
Like, this is human interaction 101, don’t punish good behaviour, bite your tongue and enjoy the win, save the discussion for when they aren’t being productive!
Worse: This, but with a fiancée… “Eurgh, you never do any household work!” “Seriously? Sure we can have that discussion, but like… literally while I’m vacuuming?!”
Urgh yeah, the absolute social misplay of using someone’s decision to be productive as an excuse to badger them about how rarely they are productive.
Like, this is human interaction 101, don’t punish good behaviour, bite your tongue and enjoy the win, save the discussion for when they aren’t being productive!