Well, yes it’s ingrained misogyny, and it’s also ingrained into modern language. The mod can’t expect to force people to stop using a word they personally disagree with, especially if it’s normalised in the speaker’s world. Censorship of basic speech and expression is the reason some of us left Reddit ffs

Edit: Read your comment. Your whole comment reads like a poor attempt at an argument which never existed.

• Emotions are part of humanity and creatures with autonomy, to unconditionally stifle emotions is to reject the idea that you exist in any meaningful way.
• No, it is never “right to shame others”.
• You’ve perceived a decreased performance in what way?

Sorry to check you like this, but some of the things you’ve stated don’t entirely align with my worldview. I am of the belief that all beings are valid and deserve, at the most basic level, a free life and general comfort. Ridiculing someone can negatively impact this, and as modern life is already hostile to the vast majority, being nice to folk is the least we can do.