Zombiefeddit.uk c 个32• 2 days ago Sir/Ma'am, this is a Wendy's international network. Taleyaaussie.zone c 个7• 2 days ago Norah (pup/it/she) Banned from community P1 • 2 days ago I really like Saer as a gender neutral honorific, it's used in Baldur's Gate :) in jordanlundlemmy.world 1 1. 4 hours ago One of my favorite authors simply distilled it down to M. Mr? Mrs? Miss? Ms? M. Makes it super simple. Norah (pup/it/she) Banned from community  2 • 0 3 hours ago Removed by mod ShaggySnackslemmy.myserv.one c 1 1 • 14 hours ago I use Mi'they/them.

You could easily make the call that I deserve this ban. But after Jordan lied about a user the other day, calling them transphobic to try and get trans people (and others) on his side as a cis white man, I just did not have the patience for him to start talking @ me about anything related to gender.

Not only that, but his reply in itself was a bit of* a powertrip in my opinion. I reported the bottom comment as “seems a bit attack helicopter-y?” mainly because that user seemed to have a posting history that indicated being a bit of an outrage merchant. I didn’t necessarily want the comment removed, more than anything I was hoping to ping @ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone to keep an eye on the user. It feels like his reply was a bit of “I’ve seen this, I don’t care and I’m going to show you that I don’t care by replying to you publicly without acknowledging your report privately”.

I’m also pretty sure I upset his feefees with my comment the other day here on !yepowertrippinbastards@lemmy.dbzer0.com and he jumped at the opportunity to ban me from somewhere. Yeah, I baited that reaction but come on, a permanent ban on a first offence? Yeah, alright mate.

I didn’t even realise I was in a lemmy.world community, let alone one @jordanlund@lemmy.world moderates (god one of the other mods is PugJesus) or I pawbably wouldn’t have participated. Going to have to go through all my lemmy.world comms now and unsubscribe I think. Can you imagine running a comm about the heinous nature of policing and then being so authoritarian?

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    TBF, if you check the timestamps, it becomes pretty clear he was only alerted to my comment by my report on the other user’s reply. That* was also frustrating, especially knowing that in the background he likely pulled it from the mod queue and Ada wouldn’t be able to see it.

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                Many communities ban you if you start namecalling and being rude. Being a buzzkill is so boring.

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              It matters very much. This is poor behaviour. What do you mean it’s outside of the purview when it’s the literal situation occurring. I don’t think Jordanlund should be insulted out of the blue when he did nothing wrong in this incident.

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                “pushing buttons” shouldn’t result in any mod action. Sounds like thought policing to me.

                Now, what OP did was a bit more than pushing buttons, but perm ban? One thing to get a warning or a week ban from it.

                Don’t really have an issue w/ OP telling a specific user they have issues with to fuck off.

                Idc if lund was an issue “in this incident.” context says they’re kind of a douche overall.