The best examples that come to mind are when ordering food. As examples:
• You speak English and Spanish and are ordering a burrito
• You speak Thai and English and are ordering Tom Yum
I imagine it could depend on numerous things:
• You primary language or ethnicity
• What sort of restaurant
• Who you’re dining with
• Who you’re ordering from
• and probably a lot more…
I say burrito the American-English way because it’s also a word in English. But if I say “arepa” I say it the way it’s pronounced in Spanish.
This trend of pronouncing it the way I first heard extends to dialects, too: Words that I first learned in an Argentine context I tend to pronounce in the Argentine way (eg. the letter elle makes a “zh” or “ĵ” sound) versus the rest of my Spanish which is more (central) Mexican.
I have often irritated or confused acquaintances when using famous quotations or phrases from Latin, which I pronounce in a Classical, rather than Italianate manner (eg. hard Cs and soft Vs).
It’s kind hard to write clearly in print about how we pronounce things, huh?
You pronounce the word correctly for whatever language the word is from. That’s the objectively correct way. Is this a serious question?
Do you speak multiple languages?
Do you pronounce borrowed French words the way they should be correctly pronounced in everyday settings?
Like this video: https://youtu.be/fKGoVefhtMQ
While I don’t think that’s the objectively correct way (I can accept reasons both for and against switching accents), I also try to say some words the “original” way. In fact, at work I often hear native English customers pronounce some foreign loan words in their corresponding language (or at least making an attempt at it). I wouldn’t say that’s the dominant style, but it does happen.
What does NOT happen as often is the overexaggerated pitch change that is present in the video. Obviously, they were doing it intentionally for comedic effect, but it also makes fun of people who don’t do it out of pretentiousness. Once a word is used often enough, I don’t see the point sticking with the “original” pronunciation (I guess not many people pronounce ‘beef’ as ‘bœuf’ anymore). Even moreso if the “original” word has sounds that the English language doesn’t. I won’t get angry if you can’t roll your R’s.
But when they butcher words that just take some careful reading I lose it. They know the German ‘sch’, and it’s fine - even remarkable. What’s not remarkable is when they see a combination of those letters, ignore the order, and just pronounce it as if it was ‘sch’, regardless. Fuchsia. C-H-S. Maybe, just MAYBE it’s not the same as S-C-H. English has a good bunch of words containing CH. The plural of tech is techs. You don’t pronounce it as ‘tesh’. Fuchsia is, originally, a word containing CH, followed by S.
Another pet (ha) peeve of mine is Dachshund. I know it’s confusingly many characters, all c, h and s. But English also has the word ‘hound’. It comes from the same root as the German ‘Hund’. The rest is Dachs. For hints, see the above paragraph. Pronouncing it as “dashoond” is just as offensive and ignorant (to me; not in general) as saying warthog as war+thog.
