I was born that year and I’m curious what others were doing around that time.

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    No kids was the key factor. It was amicable and neither of us wanted to fight. Think the whole divorce ran us like $2k or less. Which is more than the wedding. We were also about on par with wages.

    I did eventually lose the house because of the 2008 crash, but 2007 was good.

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      I did eventually lose the house because of the 2008 crash

      I would be interested about the mechanisms behind that, as I only observed it from afar out of Europe.

      I then had the impression that for existing houses it was mainly a problem for the banks?

      Didn’t know that owners like you also were directly affected.

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        Sort of complex. House values went down so people lost the ability to get credit and a lot of folks lost their ability to sustain their lifestyles. Spending went down. People lost jobs. It was a big downward spiral.

        People were unable to move to seek better opportunities because they were underwater on house loans. Ultimately, banks were affected because their customers were hurting.

        Edit: oh and I forgot variable rate mortgages. As the economy got worse, payments went up. And this primarily affected folks who could barely make their payments as it was.