So you would be okay with being dumped the moment you lose your job or don’t make ‘enough’ money for the other person’s tastes? Happy even, for the other person?
It’s just incredibly naive to believe that relationships work like that. What is going to make it or break it is the every day interaction and how you relate to each other as humans. Not only what you are but what you can be, jobs come and go. You are selecting a person to share your days, your time outside work.
But sure, I hope your ‘if you’re poor you’re not enough for me’ sigma grindset mentality finds you happiness.
So you would be okay with being dumped the moment you lose your job or don’t make ‘enough’ money for the other person’s tastes? Happy even, for the other person?
That’s what dating is like for a man. You are only as good as your paycheck or how much you spend on the last date/vacation. You are seen as a failure as a male partner if you are not continually providing. Sounds like you haven’t had the experience of dating as a man.
It’s a basic functional reality of most relationships. Sort of like looks. Most people dump people when they stop being physically attracted to them or wanting to have sex with them.
So you would be okay with being dumped the moment you lose your job or don’t make ‘enough’ money for the other person’s tastes? Happy even, for the other person?
It’s just incredibly naive to believe that relationships work like that. What is going to make it or break it is the every day interaction and how you relate to each other as humans. Not only what you are but what you can be, jobs come and go. You are selecting a person to share your days, your time outside work.
But sure, I hope your ‘if you’re poor you’re not enough for me’ sigma grindset mentality finds you happiness.
I noticed you didn’t answer my last question.
That’s what dating is like for a man. You are only as good as your paycheck or how much you spend on the last date/vacation. You are seen as a failure as a male partner if you are not continually providing. Sounds like you haven’t had the experience of dating as a man.
It’s a basic functional reality of most relationships. Sort of like looks. Most people dump people when they stop being physically attracted to them or wanting to have sex with them.
Thank you you get it
Sorry to hear you’ve had that experience. You’re more than the value capitalism says you have.
Cheers.
I am, but that doesn’t mean other people don’t see me that way. and i have no control over that.
i do a lot of volunteer work, but a lot of my dates think it is stupid and dumb because it’s not about making money or spending it.