i want someone to hold me and cuddle me affectionately and say that they love me

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    25 days ago

    I spend a decent amount of time in kink spaces and this is unironically more appealing to me as a kink than what most kinksters feel is kink. Walk into a dungeon and you’ll see a dozen men beating a dozen women but you won’t see anyone snuggling and being loving unless it is aftercare

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        25 days ago

        Honestly that’s a perfect analogy for my point. Folks think McDonalds is good food or unique or special or something, and everyone goes there and has the same thing and it’s so goddamn boring. There’s nothing interesting about a McDonalds burger just like there’s nothing interesting about “I hit women to make my pp hard”