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I reported my ex-boyfriend to UK Counter Terrorism

I need a place to make this confession anonymously, because I have told no one in my personal life and don’t think I can.

A man I once thought I would marry, with whom I lived together (in my house, that I bought/own, where I cooked and cleaned for us) and had baby names picked out with, has been posting hateful content on social media since our breakup, even before Oct 7. This includes “D***h to Israel”, Oct 7 rape denialism about how Israeli women were paid and lied, and that even Israeli peace activists cannot be trusted, as they are simply liberal Zionists who provide cover for the rest.

I’m an Israeli woman with a history of SA which he knew about, from a family of peace activists, and cannot express how much all this hurt me. More than the breakup ever did, the feeling of betrayal and dehumanisation from someone I once loved.

For more than 2 years, I did nothing about it. A few days ago, I decided to take back control. I screenshot support he’s posted online for Hamas and Palestine Action, and reported him to UK Counter Terrorism, for expressing support for proscribed terror groups. He is not a citizen, and is here on a student visa.

I have spent thousands in therapy, and years of my youth, processing the loss of capacity to trust others, which he played a large role in causing. I hope he suffers consequences.

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    "The man I was about to marry was posting bad things about the Germans. So I did the only thing I could and reported him to the Gestapo and the Nazi Party HQ. He is not a citizen, and is a Jew.

    I am a victim of sexual assault, and now that I have ruined someone else’s life, I hope I’ll feel nicer. AITA?"

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    I’m an Israeli woman with a history of SA which he knew about, from a family of peace activists, and cannot express how much all this hurt me. More than the breakup ever did, the feeling of betrayal and dehumanisation from someone I once loved.

    idgaf, death to israel

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    I’m an Israeli woman with a history of SA

    And what do you suppose was the nationality of the perpetrator? I’ll give 100 to 1 odds that they weren’t Palestinian.

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    I’m sure he’s not happy, but I hope he’s okay. Not getting your life tied down to a ziofash and getting kicked out of the UK is basically dodging two bullets at once.

    Edit: on second though I’m finding this idea that she’s a “peaceful and vulnerable Israeli woman victimized by a foreigner’s anti-semitism” to sound pretty difficult to believe. Nah, I don’t buy it. The Death To Israel character sounds based though.

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        Only a eastern-europe fascist could consider themselves ‘far-left’ while in a relationship with a zionist and anti-soviet lol, like whats even left on ‘the left’ when your politics are ok with dating a concentration camp enjoyer and anti-communist. Typical anti-‘tankie’ bullshit honestly, they want the social capital of being a leftist while actually just being a far-right chud.

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    I am surrounded by turbolibs, even in my ethnic neighborhood. I say little unless it’s asking questions: why are the roads bad if we pay taxes? Why are food banks even a thing and we pay taxes? Why does our fire department not have fire fighters and we pay taxes? Why do the biggest water consumption businesses pay the same water bill as a single member household?

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    Mass or systematic SA by the Palestinian resistance is absolutely a fabricated story, from the same media and state that justifies IOF soldiers SAing Palestinian detainees, however there maybe were isolated incidents of SA committed by individuals participating in the al-Asqa flood operation.

    So while reporting her ex to secret police to get him deported or worse for stating facts should absolutely be condemned, I feel there are far better instances optically we should expend our energy on instead that avoids giving zios an excuse to call us SA deniers or whatever and possibly sway uniformed people who have been the victims of SA to their ‘side’

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    People need to start asking Israelis whether genocide is a tenet of Judaism. It isn’t, so being opposed to genocide of Palestinians isn’t anti-Semitic.

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    The boyfriend is Eastern European, so it won’t just be a slap on the wrist. He’s quite likely to get deported.