Transcript: r/Jewish

I reported my ex-boyfriend to UK Counter Terrorism

I need a place to make this confession anonymously, because I have told no one in my personal life and don’t think I can.

A man I once thought I would marry, with whom I lived together (in my house, that I bought/own, where I cooked and cleaned for us) and had baby names picked out with, has been posting hateful content on social media since our breakup, even before Oct 7. This includes “D***h to Israel”, Oct 7 rape denialism about how Israeli women were paid and lied, and that even Israeli peace activists cannot be trusted, as they are simply liberal Zionists who provide cover for the rest.

I’m an Israeli woman with a history of SA which he knew about, from a family of peace activists, and cannot express how much all this hurt me. More than the breakup ever did, the feeling of betrayal and dehumanisation from someone I once loved.

For more than 2 years, I did nothing about it. A few days ago, I decided to take back control. I screenshot support he’s posted online for Hamas and Palestine Action, and reported him to UK Counter Terrorism, for expressing support for proscribed terror groups. He is not a citizen, and is here on a student visa.

I have spent thousands in therapy, and years of my youth, processing the loss of capacity to trust others, which he played a large role in causing. I hope he suffers consequences.