• zensanto@ttrpg.network
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      13 hours ago

      appearing clean

      It means he’s attractive.

      having my shit together

      It means he has money.

      If you lack both of these, it’s going to be rough.

      • deranger@sh.itjust.works
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        50 minutes ago

        I mean, I am 6’3”, have all my hair, and have 20% bodyfat, but there’s no indication of my financial status on my profile. I’m financially independent but I live in a modest house and have a practical, not fancy car. I’d say I’m a fairly normal lanky nerd that’s slightly on the spectrum.

        Point is, I feel like an average 50th percentile guy overall, but I’m getting a lot of attention, maybe 90th percentile based on what I read online. Still get ghosted a bunch, but who cares.

      • petrol_sniff_king@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        1 hour ago

        I’m friends with several women: no it doesn’t, and no it doesn’t.

        Having your shit together means your room doesn’t have a pile of garbage building on the floor. It means you’ve hung up 1 piece of art to make your white walls more interesting. It means your carpet was washed within the last 3 months.