When the “woke” mania swept the country in 2020, I took a step back and reevaluated where I stood and why I stood there. To my surprise, I found that I agreed with conservatives and libertarians on a number of issues. I opposed childhood gender transitions, unlawful and divisive DEI mandates, and the excesses of Critical Race Theory. I argued against biological males competing in women’s sports and being housed in women’s prisons. I did so loudly and publicly, losing many friends along the way.
Today, some of those same attorneys I worked with are advocating for my right to marry my fiancée to be stripped away.
I fell for obvious right-wing propaganda and rationalized the hate with reason and logic. Now the hate machine is coming for me and that’s not fair!
It hasn’t gone away. I’m a cis male, pansexual, married to a Trans enby who’s also pan. We’re poly with relationships outside of our own marriage.
I assure you that LG vs BT still exists. I’ve had people accuse me of not being honest with my partner (They know both my gfs, and I know both their gf and bf), or that I’m not actually pan because I’m only with “girls” (My partner is AFAB but enby (They/Them, working on getting top surgery), and my gfs are a cis woman and a trans woman (let that part sink in)).
So because we don’t fit the standard traditional relationship roles, we’re somehow “doing it wrong”.