• 🍉 DrRedOctopus 🐙🍉@lemmy.world
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    15 days ago

    sadly, not a shitpost, I see monogamy as unethical. relationships aren’t sports, aren’t property, you cannot “cheat” to win, it makes no sense.

    lying is a problem.

    if my partner came from a conference and told me she got railed by half the conference attendants I’ll be glad she enjoyed herself. and if she wouldn’t trust me to tell the truth it means there was no relationship to begin with as there’s no trust.

    no idea why most people are obsessed with controlling their partners genitals.

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      5 days ago

      Because Sex is not like watching a movie, for entertainment.

      It is a natural process you do with the mate you choose to generate offspring.

      If you do it with others than your mate, it is disloyalty

      • Damn, that is one Christian tradwife take.

        So gay sex isn’t real sex? if my partner reaches menopause, it isn’t sex?

        Find me exactly, where in the human manual and rules it says so? oh wait, it doesn’t exist. we are free to make our own rules and relationships as we please.

        Loyalty? tf is that for. I want my partner to be with me because they want to be with me, not because they swore an oath to only fuck me.

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          5 days ago

          Sex should be done only for the purpose of having Children

          And quite literally, read the Bible, it is the human manual

          Thats a personal take, for you. I want my partner to be with me because they want to and I dont want them to cheat on me

          • Humans existed for hundreds of thousands of years before the Bible. Not a manual for people.

            If you’re asexual and only want sex for children, that’s a valid opinion as long as you don’t force it on anyone else.

            Humans are social animals, look at our bonobo cousins, their whole social network revolves around sex for pleasure. It is in our nature. Go teach bonobos the Bible.

            And if you are asexual, and want a partner, make sure they are asexual too, otherwise they will have unmet needs and unless you allow them to have another partner, they’ll be miserable. I’m miserable just talking to you.

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              5 days ago

              Yeah, didnt we sacrifice a BUNCH of kids before the Bible and Jesus?

              God basically sent Jesus down to die for our sins and teach us the way we should live, technically, he IS th manual

              And yeah I quite literally tell them on the first date as if showing up in a brown robe wasnt enough

              • 1 Samuel 15:3

                Christianity allowed and enabled and benefited from colonialism, slave trade, countless genocides…

                If you want to protect children go burn some churches.

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                  5 days ago

                  that verse is about the amalec, wayyyy before european colonialism

                  Its also the old testament which Jesus fulfilled so most of that doesnt apply to us anymore

                  Matthew 10:9 Do not possess gold, nor silver, nor money in your purses

                  • So, God does command the killing of children, but you dismissed it because it was before God impregnated a married woman.

                    And then you dismissed all the children who died and forced into labor with the churches blessings.

                    And you end with a completely unrelated quote, yhea, then why is the Catholic Church sitting on countless gold and treasures?

                    Christianity is one of the most toxic religions in history. Used to prop up tyrants and control the population. and you absolutely refuse to acknowledge any of that. yet you use that to enforce your closeted views on others.