You’re missing the point entirely. And I’m not going to rehash everything just to explain how.
Oh, but what I will say is that people who are isolated are fractured and weak. A bunch of isolated individuals can not present a very strong resistance. So one would think you’d have more sympathy for people trying to find community, even in small ways.
But if you’re just going to call those people coddled (by whom? Who’s coddling them, if they’re isolated and lonely? Bad logic) and pretend it’s about entitlement and not the empirically verified deep-seated psychological need that all humans have for camaraderie and socialization, then I can’t really help you and I’m not gonna waste my time trying.
So go on, keep punching down on the vulnerable, while you’re focusing all your ire on them instead of the problems that you claim they should be focused on (as if people can’t consider about more than one problem?).
People only comprehend certain things when they feel it raw themselves.
Self-awarewolf, eh? You’re the one here complaining that other people have problems that you don’t care about or sympathize with.
Trust me, I learned not to want or need people, it is a choice and not a need. And if you constantly desire things while you are still insecure, you will just hurt more.
Better to cut the scab early. Quit coffee as soon as you can, quit YouTube, become sober, focus on self-improvement, stop depending on people.
You’re missing the point entirely. And I’m not going to rehash everything just to explain how.
Oh, but what I will say is that people who are isolated are fractured and weak. A bunch of isolated individuals can not present a very strong resistance. So one would think you’d have more sympathy for people trying to find community, even in small ways.
But if you’re just going to call those people coddled (by whom? Who’s coddling them, if they’re isolated and lonely? Bad logic) and pretend it’s about entitlement and not the empirically verified deep-seated psychological need that all humans have for camaraderie and socialization, then I can’t really help you and I’m not gonna waste my time trying.
So go on, keep punching down on the vulnerable, while you’re focusing all your ire on them instead of the problems that you claim they should be focused on (as if people can’t consider about more than one problem?).
Self-awarewolf, eh? You’re the one here complaining that other people have problems that you don’t care about or sympathize with.
Trust me, I learned not to want or need people, it is a choice and not a need. And if you constantly desire things while you are still insecure, you will just hurt more.
Better to cut the scab early. Quit coffee as soon as you can, quit YouTube, become sober, focus on self-improvement, stop depending on people.
The sooner you do this, the less you will hurt.
You certainly seem like you’re hurting.