We know about how you’ll never forgive a murderer, never forgive a pedophile, never forgive a child molester .etc

I want to know from anyone, what else they find pretty unforgivable.

For me, it’s when you dox me or someone else. I’m from the old ancient internet days as it was developing and doxxing is something you just don’t do. In some aspects, doxxing is useful for revealing extremely problematic users like online pedophiles. But a lot of times, doxxing is just an extreme dirty move to pull on anyone when nobody wants their online personas tied to their real lives. Especially in an age where privacy is white hot.

Someone actually did dox me on their Facebook and I already disliked them to begin with, but they went into the “I hate this fucking person” part with me when I discovered that they doxxed me. And no matter if there’s any chance at all to attempt to reconcile any difference, they’ve crossed that line, I don’t trust them and again, I hate the living shit out of them for it.

  • Goldholz @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    19 hours ago

    So the manipulator as faar as i know is around 30s. Also a nazi, nazi memerobilia, his last message with the blackmailing was something like him not beliefing in the non white zionist jew world lies. He’s got my adress because i gave it to his victim one when the victim seemed to have come to his senses and broke out of the abuser for a few days. I offered him refuge. Victim though went back to his abuser against my best advice. He also seems to have chats where it seems like i am sending nudes and asking for nudes of this minor (in reality the picture i send was a drawing done of me that didnt show my genitals nore my ass for i censored them).

    I know blackmailing is a crime.

    I looked into reporting it anonymously but to no avail. To that also comes that messages as evidence arent that good nore can they be submitted as such without a judges ruling, from what i read.

    Then there is also the matter that while yes i can tell on hand of writing styles which messages got send my the abuser and which were the victim (yes the abuser seemed to have taken over the victims phone and texted stuff like “please dont report this. We all made mistakes. I dont want you to report it anymore”). And ofc that the evidence of him admiting it are screenshots of messages the victim exchanged with his abuser. And if a village police station (i have the abusers adress from the victim) would actually do something about it or just wave it off, is also complete other matter. The abuser is also half across the country from me and so would be the police. Due to germanys states’ police all being indipendent of each other that is such a hassle for me i can expect that is why i would have wanted to do it anonymously.

    Then ofc like you said this whole thing with the victim coming forward or how that goes. Ugh.

    Can you consult with police first without making a report?

    Since its from another state idk how that goes and how it would be handled.

    They may not be able to do anything regardless if the victim doesn’t want to come forward, so a consultation can help you decide what to do.

    Due to all the things i have mentioned and honestly me not wanting more on my plate that i already have due to life being life and me seemingly having wished apon a monkey paw with “i just want a peaceful quiet year” i dont think i could handle also managing this whole police investigation side mission.

    So if they aren’t able to do anything right now perhaps they can take the evidence and save it for if/when the victim wants to press charges themselves? That way they won’t know you did anything until they are okay with it themselves.

    Like i said my evidence is only text messages which next to the legal hurdles, i doubt are good evidence. I think the most the police would do if i said “hey this person living there, i suspect of cr, drug trafficing and trading, drugging, handling drugs to a minor and also grooming the minor” is just have a knock at the abusers place or a mock investigation. :(