What do you do in bed that drives your partners crazy?

  • Ziglin (it/they)@lemmy.world
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    10 hours ago

    As someone with less experience I experience that is exactly what I would have expected to be most important but I would have also thought that it is so trivial that it probably doesn’t need to be said.

    • Bwaz@lemmy.world
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      8 hours ago

      Maybe not. The basic idea, not obvious to all, is that this is something you do WITH a partner, not a performance you put on for them.

    • Confee@fedinsfw.app
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      8 hours ago

      I would have also thought that it is so trivial that it probably doesn’t need to be said.

      In my experience, the majority of people I know who were in relationships don’t get it. So many times, their problems could be resolved by simple communication. Sadly, no matter how hard I try to ram it in their heads, they still don’t get it.