PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 5 days agoWho's in the wrong here?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square151fedilinkarrow-up1657arrow-down144
arrow-up1613arrow-down1imageWho's in the wrong here?lemmy.worldPhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 5 days agomessage-square151fedilink
minus-squarebutwhyishischinabook@anarchist.nexuslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up88arrow-down1·5 days agoGrey is definitely in the wrong, that’s exactly when you should have used a white lie but they were being a huge dick.
minus-squareDanquebec@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up6arrow-down2·4 days agoBeing dishonest about it would have been way worse. But grey’s reaction after that is ridiculous.
minus-squareKombatWombat@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up6·4 days agoObviously you shouldn’t cancel on someone because something more interesting came along. But I would say telling them that’s the reason is worse than just not giving one or making up something.
minus-squareDanquebec@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up6·4 days agoYea I’m going to clarify my comment: of course, cancelling for this reason is a dick move. But I stand by that: being honest about being a dick is better than making up excuses.
Grey is definitely in the wrong, that’s exactly when you should have used a white lie but they were being a huge dick.
Being dishonest about it would have been way worse.
But grey’s reaction after that is ridiculous.
Obviously you shouldn’t cancel on someone because something more interesting came along. But I would say telling them that’s the reason is worse than just not giving one or making up something.
Yea I’m going to clarify my comment: of course, cancelling for this reason is a dick move.
But I stand by that: being honest about being a dick is better than making up excuses.