Have you considered that the way you generally behaved around people created a selection pressure in your dating pool? If you behave like an asshole in public you will only attract people who are turned on by or at least accepting of asshole-ish behavior.
No. I’m quiet and I leave people alone. But my entire life people have told me being quiet and minding my own business makes me a jerk. Probably because they can’t stand someone being quiet and minding their own business.
It’s why I’m happier single. Because I don’t bother anyone, and my exes always wanted me to start shit and bother people.
Have you considered that the way you generally behaved around people created a selection pressure in your dating pool? If you behave like an asshole in public you will only attract people who are turned on by or at least accepting of asshole-ish behavior.
No. I’m quiet and I leave people alone. But my entire life people have told me being quiet and minding my own business makes me a jerk. Probably because they can’t stand someone being quiet and minding their own business.
It’s why I’m happier single. Because I don’t bother anyone, and my exes always wanted me to start shit and bother people.