• velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    2 days ago

    These men with their soft feelings can’t handle sex that is on equal footing.

    I’ve topped more men in my life than these men have fucked women. I know what I’m talking about and it upsets them hahaha

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      2 days ago

      Hey now, don’t generalize about men or you’re doing the same thing that rude dude did lol

      Speaking as a man, it’s not soft feelings leading to this, but deep insecurities, often totally subconscious

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        2 days ago

        Fair enough, I missed a word in the first sentence: “These** men”

        He took great offense to idea of sex being more than a penis being inserted into a vagina. It says much more about him than anything else I’ve said here.