• sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    3 days ago

    Damn! I’ve got to assume that that likely wasn’t all PIV?

    Like, I’ve been able to keep uh, full mast going through a refractory period, a couple of times, but… yeah, its not easy.

    Usually gotta either give the little guy a bit of of break, use some other kind of stimulatory body part or tool… or basically find some position / situation where I’m effectively edging myself but getting her over the top.

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      3 days ago

      No, I don’t generally cum during PIV. Most women don’t cum from penile insertion alone.

      In fact, there was no penis involved at all during that particular session.

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        2 days ago

        That makes much more sense.

        Yeah, whole lot of other erogenous zones and spots, everyone is a bit different as to how sensitive they are to which ones and which combinations of them.

        I would have been extremely surprised if you were saying PIV got you to +10 orgasms, hence why I asked lol.

        When I’m with a woman, my rough rule of thumb is that she should have orgasmed at least once before my pants are even off. Lost art of foreplay, and all that.

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        But yeah, very broadly speaking, at least in my own experience, if you can find a PIV position where the clitoris is either being directly sort of smooshed or rubbed by the guy’s … i guess just ‘pubic region’, or the position is such that a free hand can also ‘massage’ the clitoris… tends to work better for the lady.

        And also, there are specific erogenous zones in basically the rear of the vagina, anterior and posterior fornix, i think are the names? Some women have i guess you’d say ‘high sensitivity’ there, some have it at the gspot, some have it at both.

        You’re right that for most women, those areas alone being stimulated isn’t enough, but, for some, it is.

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          2 days ago

          You’re right that for most women, those areas alone being stimulated isn’t enough, but, for some, it is.

          Yep, most women need clitoral stimulation in order to orgasm. Most =/= all.

          The way some men in here are throwing fits about women being able to orgasm without a penis is pretty funny though. How did any of you think wlw have sex?

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            2 days ago

            Yeah I don’t know.

            Porn exists where no men are present.

            Vibrators… pretty common thing as well.

            I… yeah I don’t know how anyone who has like, used the internet before, can somehow not understand how you don’t need a dick for sex to happen.