• wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
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      2 hours ago

      Mostly from people overreacting and misattributing malice. Literally some of the most innocuous shit gets misinterpreted and then things spiral

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        1 hour ago

        I dunno man, as someone married to trans person, who also has a girlfriend who’s transgender, you’re kind of a straight up asshole.

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          Based on what are you making that judgement? A series of truncated comments out of context? Because that’s basically all you can see. You don’t have a clue what I was saying other than that. So you’re just taking the mod’s word for it that I was being transphobic, and that the mod wasn’t just overreacting?

          Literally nothing I said in that entire exchange was transphobic, but I got attacked with a series of strawman arguments by people assuming what I was trying to say. Kinda like you’re doing now. See how easily that happens?