OP has also been lucky, because they’re able to live with their parents, but that doesn’t mean they have the resources to be able to support a separate household.
I have also been lucky, in that I have always been able to make money even when I had nothing. But I’ve known other people who were not in that position and struggled as a result.
In that sense, everyone is and can be lucky. It’s not like you know or feel, at the time, that things would ever improve. Things feel final. It never feels like you’ll get another chance at life.
Yet, most do. I was lucky in that it never took years. But even those seemingly stuck, tens of years on the street, can always get a chance, be it luck or resolve. Or both. I suppose luck means nothing if you don’t have the resolve to seize the chance and do something with it.
All to say, with some resolve, and yes, luck, having your own roof over your head is not a far shot, it’s the genuine common case for most everyone. Maybe it takes time and work, and luck, and will, but there’s no place in world where it wasn’t generally the average person’s situation, as in, more likely than not.
That’s fair, if to you resolve means being willing to live in your car or an abandoned house, and also that you don’t necessarily acquire money through legal means.
I get where you are coming from, and fair enough, but I strongly feel it’s more sensible not to mirror this through the worst possible scenario, but the average one.
Either way you make more sense here than I, through a more empathetic and understanding lense, and ultimately I’m not sure what it is exactly I intended to convey with all this back and forth.
Maybe just that things are not always as hopeless as they seem, and if a thing feels out of reach, at the time, unachievable, doesn’t always make it so, or mean it’ll always be so.
But the “all you need is some elbow grease” pathos I’m really not sure where that came from, I didn’t intend it to sound that way, but reading back, that’s what my responses sound like.
Oh well. As long as we dare to dream and hope, we are still alive. And as long as we are alive, it’s never too late for anything, however unlikely or distant they may seem.
Hey, no worries, we both approached this from opposite ends. And it may be that because of my history I’ve mostly interacted with people who had more humble starts in life or didn’t get a normal amount of opportunities.
Either way, thank you for arguing in good faith :-)
In other words, you’ve been lucky.
OP has also been lucky, because they’re able to live with their parents, but that doesn’t mean they have the resources to be able to support a separate household.
I have also been lucky, in that I have always been able to make money even when I had nothing. But I’ve known other people who were not in that position and struggled as a result.
In that sense, everyone is and can be lucky. It’s not like you know or feel, at the time, that things would ever improve. Things feel final. It never feels like you’ll get another chance at life.
Yet, most do. I was lucky in that it never took years. But even those seemingly stuck, tens of years on the street, can always get a chance, be it luck or resolve. Or both. I suppose luck means nothing if you don’t have the resolve to seize the chance and do something with it.
All to say, with some resolve, and yes, luck, having your own roof over your head is not a far shot, it’s the genuine common case for most everyone. Maybe it takes time and work, and luck, and will, but there’s no place in world where it wasn’t generally the average person’s situation, as in, more likely than not.
That’s fair, if to you resolve means being willing to live in your car or an abandoned house, and also that you don’t necessarily acquire money through legal means.
Some people are not suited to doing that.
I get where you are coming from, and fair enough, but I strongly feel it’s more sensible not to mirror this through the worst possible scenario, but the average one.
Either way you make more sense here than I, through a more empathetic and understanding lense, and ultimately I’m not sure what it is exactly I intended to convey with all this back and forth.
Maybe just that things are not always as hopeless as they seem, and if a thing feels out of reach, at the time, unachievable, doesn’t always make it so, or mean it’ll always be so.
But the “all you need is some elbow grease” pathos I’m really not sure where that came from, I didn’t intend it to sound that way, but reading back, that’s what my responses sound like.
Oh well. As long as we dare to dream and hope, we are still alive. And as long as we are alive, it’s never too late for anything, however unlikely or distant they may seem.
Hey, no worries, we both approached this from opposite ends. And it may be that because of my history I’ve mostly interacted with people who had more humble starts in life or didn’t get a normal amount of opportunities.
Either way, thank you for arguing in good faith :-)