Coming from a world where the word itself is not even widely know, the idea of being raised as child without any explanations about the world or comforts to be held, scares me. I always heard on the internet of people leaving their religion as teenagers when they were raised by their parents religiously. Lots of people fall into existentialism, which makes sense to me

But what of a child. I am a very anxious person(as i have come to accept). Being told that there is nothing after death or that no one really knows, would have send me spiraling. That said, logically, people have done it(even if i can’t picture it) so i am also wondering how people/parents grappled with this and struggles they faced, what solutions they come up with

Also, on the opposite of the spectrum, what happens when your child converts(?) to a religion. Yes its there choice and all, but i cant imagine there being no resentment or conflicted feeling

  • YoFrodo@lemmy.world
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    2 days ago

    One of the criticisms of being raised in a specific faith is that the children do not choose their faith, they are already in it.

    So being raised by an atheist and then choosing a religion would carry more weight and meaning because it was a conscious decision made deliberately by that person.

    • thejml@sh.itjust.works
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      6 hours ago

      This is my view. I am not going to force a religion on a kid. Let them make their choice. There are already plenty id people blindly following something only because their parents/friends/guardians did. A lot of them are just halfassing it because they don’t truly believe, but don’t know what else to do.