I find I am my own worst enemy. Self sabotaging before I even get started. Doubt. The cycles of starting and then quitting jobs or healthy habits.
What are your tricks to get out of your own head?
I find I am my own worst enemy. Self sabotaging before I even get started. Doubt. The cycles of starting and then quitting jobs or healthy habits.
What are your tricks to get out of your own head?
If you dont believe in yourself who will ?.
No one else gets to define you. Only you. It doesn’t matter what people think.
Just put in the work daily and the results will come. Use a habit tracking app to gamify it if needed.
If your circle is getting you down or doubting you, change your circle. Not everyone wants to see you succeed. As you get older you cut people out that no longer align with the life you want for yourself. It can be friends and also family.
You got this OP
That believing in self is the fucking worst. It’s so much easier to help others.
Circle ain’t the problem it’s me not being able to accept love.
I appreciate your advice and time.
I feel that. I had to fake it till I could make it. I don’t know if that can help everyone, but it helped me.
I made rules for myself about how I would choose to respond to love, and first they became habits, and then much later, they came with the kind of feelings that I suspect many people got for free from day one.