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Cake day: June 6th, 2026

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  • "My hand to God

    I didn’t mean to

    After all

    Look what we’ve been through

    Men come in different shades

    That’s how we’re made

    The little house on Ellis Drive

    Is where I felt most alive

    The oak tree covered that old Ford

    I miss it Lord,

    I miss it Lord

    These blood red eyes

    Don’t see so good

    But what’s worse is if they could

    Would I change my ways?

    Wasted times and broken dreams

    Violent colors so obscene

    It’s all I see these days

    These days"

    Just a deep and profound expression of regret for misconduct towards another, a special person, and the feeling of tremendous loss that comes from the inevitable, irrevocable, change there from.

    I know it all too well.




  • “Do not ask for a lighter load, but wider shoulders.” -on trials and tribulations.

    “Everyone is fighting a battle you know nothing about.” -on compassion and perspective.

    “It takes pressure to make diamonds.” -on appreciating adversity.

    “You can either laugh or cry. Take your pick.” -on the absurdities of life.

    “You can never go home again” -on impermanence. Not in the literal sense of never being able to physically go home, but rather that specific time and place in life that can’t be returned to.

    “You are the captain of your ship.” -on taking command of your life.















  • Tried it? You can’t escape it, lol.

    I’ve got my feed set up. It works about as well as it can. Lemmy is a particularly good place for it, low content, less users, and no ads.

    As a core concept, I wouldn’t have a problem with it, provided we actually had way more levers to adjust the algorithms.

    In larger settings it’s a complete nightmare, even on sites that aren’t trying to generate ad revenue.

    Even as someone who lived through the static webpage and forum era and loved it, reverting to that feels like going backwards in progress. But without finer controls over the algorithm, the general application of scrolling is ass and detrimental to good life/screen time balance. There should be some kind of middle ground or new structure.