He doesn’t need an introduction. He’s married. But he teaches a 22 year old guy… It feels like he’s not 40, but 60… And the only place to meet someone is a bar… 🤦🏼‍♀️In different cultures and different countries everything is different. You need to study it first. And he was told directly that I, for example, do not talk to drunk people. Unfortunately, such is the society, and it is too nasty when drunk.

That is, if they refuse, then there are reasons for this. And it doesn’t mean that everyone is obliged to give each other a phone number… God, 2025… Who gives them out anyway? This is personal information that is not advisable to distribute. You have nicknames in IG, Reddit, Twitter, FB and Telegram… And a bunch of others.

And damn, what’s so strange about embankments??? You know, there are some in Europe - by the river! Where there is a bench or people just stroll… It feels like you never left the house…

You are absolutely right. What kind of idiot would just walk up to you and take your number? Like if a girl just came up to you and you’d react normally? Even without knowing who she is and why she needs your number… 🤦🏼‍♀️ The man is clearly strange and obsessed with phone numbers…

What the hell is this exaggeration? You just go and exaggerate everything!

If you need a meeting party, go ahead and organize one. But it is logical that no one will give out a phone number during social networks! It is not 90 or 00 (depending on the level of development of the country). After all, everyone has the right to refuse an acquaintance! It is not an obligation. But to answer your question, a small conversation is quite enough. And during the conversation you will understand whether there is any sense.

Gay, ok. So he’s just looking for a girlfriend, not a girlfriend. (Fucking English… 1 friend, 2 relationships) Why then meet on the street? There are plenty of different fan fiction sites, plenty of groups on themes where you can find people who are quite tolerant of gays and lesbians. You apparently have no idea what it’s like in other countries… Today the easiest way to meet someone is the Internet. And not the street. After all, many do not accept people who violate their personal space. I won’t even mention those who already have a developed culture of “man = rapist”… It’s generally difficult to understand what some individuals have brought women…

Are you talking to me??? Let’s start with the fact that I am a woman. And what do you mean by “traditional women”?

Where did I say that? There are drunk people in the bar, and they don’t always want to meet you. Yes, there are those who are only thirsty for acquaintances, but often they themselves will take the initiative. I suggested a list - cafes, parks, embankments, etc. It’s not always pleasant to talk to people who have been drinking, especially when it’s not part of the group.

Oh, you picked everything out perfectly.

What cultures exactly are you talking about?

Oh, I see a peer. He’ll be 30 in a few days. Yes, you are right. If they ask you not to interfere, then you shouldn’t continue. There is still something that repels certain people. I definitely won’t talk to people who are drunk. And lately I’ve noticed that I don’t want to talk (no matter the gender) to people who smoke - no matter what, an IQOS, a cigarette or an electronic cigarette… I hate smokers terribly… Well, I answer calmly, I can continue, but it doesn’t always mean anything. Just talking.Although this has become very rare, and mostly I have headphones on and don’t want to communicate much… There are reasons for this.

But in another country, when moving, I would be happy to talk, even through a translator. As I do with some other people and on different topics on another platform.

Ok. But not everywhere is it accepted to have “small talk”…

I agree. But the thing with women… Oh, I wish you could visit the post-Soviet countries. Especially Belarus, Russia, Ukraine… You would be amazed by what’s there.

Let’s not attribute this to all women. This is both imposed and from the consumer culture of the patriarchal system. Less often, when it is radical feminism - here it is simply hatred of a man simply because he is a man… I am a girl, and I often see radical feminism… Especially in the post-Soviet space… It’s a wild horror… Especially those raised by mercantile princesses… If I were relaxing in a bar, I definitely wouldn’t want to see a man I didn’t know at that time. Why do you need parks, cafeterias, libraries and just the embankment?

Read various articles. Scientific or economic, something else. Sometimes analysis together with GPT Chat. But more often it’s a series in the background while still reading. And then put the phone down and listen to the series in a mask. And that’s it.

Once upon a time it happened. And it was a consequence of stomach bleeding… Not much good…

I still hear it sometimes, but that’s when I have severe shortness of breath and high blood pressure.