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Cake day: March 17th, 2025

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  • In Italy “uccello” (bird) means penis in a very unformal context, usually used with friends. In Tuscany, for the regional ones, we have “Topa” (female of the mouse) to indicate a very pretty girl, also very unformal and a bit rude. Same translation for “passera” (female of the sparrow). Both can also indicate the literal female reproductive organe. “Gatta morta” (dead female cat) means somebody who acts ingenous or hide her personality under a chill, almost naif mask to act at the opportune moment.


  • If somebody has a tattoo of something related to video games. i find it very childish, yes you may like mario but it’s not ok to ink it on your skin in your thirties. Also those hideous large shoes like osiris or globes, at least in my country only addicts and poser skateboarders who are also addicts wear them. And dreadlocks, im sorry but i cant stop thinking how dirty they are, matbe its a misconseption.

    being more general i despise adults, like above 35s, and old people who dress like they’re 20. Skinny jeans, jordans and shoes like that, and sportswear/hypebeast shit. Get your life together, your wife left you and you see your sons two weekends a month but this wont help.


  • Good ev olive oil is something else. Once you try you can never go back to.

    I lived most my life using and tasting the highest quality cause my dad works in the agricolutural field, writing contracts for farmers and etc. and, while not so good paid, the job comes with the upside of the presents from said farmers. Liters and liters of the highest quality oil italy can produce. I think we never (since he had this job) boight a can of oil, and its a pretty big save too considering that kind of oil easily goes for 20€/L.

    When i was out for university, my tight budget meant i had to resort to just “Olive oil”. Not EV. Not 100% local. I though “how bad can it be, its still pressed olives!” Bad, very bad.





  • We were together for two years, if you’re right i can expect some fun months to come haha. Jokes aside, i think you are right for there were some problema in communications, from both sides but in all homesty i cant say i wasnt expecting the breakup. I smelled it from at least a month before. Im not the type to blame others, im rather more likely to blame me and overthink my mistakes. Thank you for your advice, as i said in another comment i’m trying to focus on university at the moment and my future in general. I just have to accept the fact that there will be someone else, one day ore another. Thanks again, wish you a good day :)



  • Thank you for your advice. I always tried to be as trasparent as i could and i think im ok with myself and how i behaved (mostly). You are right, sometimes things just happen and people just move away from one another. But one thing im scared of is losing her also as a friend. I sincerely hope i can grow out of this whole situation and come back to a friendship. I know it will be almost impossibile to get back the same exact relationship we had before all the dating, but i hope we can at least get back to being just normal friends. It would suck if we were to lose each other forever. But yeah, i guess i just have to find the courage to finally turn the page, insted of hoping we could rewind. Thank you again for your words, have a nice day :)


  • Thank you for your advice and your kindness :) i would love to go to therapy, but sadly all the money i make with work goes toward future rent for university and expenses. Whenever ill have some money be assured that therapy is the first thing i will spend it on haha. About your second point i think you’re right, away from the eyes away from the heart (dont know if its used in english). As i said i unistalled instagram and the fact that she lives away helped about the no contact. The spare occasions, as i said three if i remember correctly, where i saw her were for graduation parties of good friends i had to attend, so i had to swallow the pill. On august she’s gonna go abroad for a year with the uni so i guess that will help haha. Thank you again for taking time to read and respond, have a good day :)