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  • I’ve dealt with this kind of depression before. You need to balance between “productive” sources of pleasure and generically fun, easy , meaningless sources of pleasure.

    “Productive” pleasure doesn’t mean you have to start a side hustle, just something more memorable and meaningful thank a quick hit of pleasure.

    For me , the most minimal version was instead of playing randomly generated rougelikes, it was playing 3d games with a plot I had to pay attention to, or a film I had to pay attention to.

    Obviously, the more involved and challenging the pleasurable activity is, the more you feel like you’re growing yourself as a person. But to get the ball rolling you can try that. Then you can work on developing a skill, like painting, or music or something else. Maybe you want to learn a sport.

    For me I worked up from playing Fallout: New Vegas, to playing the guitar more, to programming personal projects.

    You can look this up more/talk about your therapist about : Eudaimonia and hedonism

    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eudaimonia






  • I’ve posted about being the world’s shittiest polyglot multiple times. Here’s my secret :

    • Learn turkish as a child
    • Immersion learning in the UK from child to adult.
    • German classes for five years as a child to teen. Due to lack of dedication (outside of singing Rammstein songs) , lose the entirety of my german capabilities, despite getting a good grade.
    • Learning Spanish as an adult. Started with night school to build a foundation, then kept at it with media consumption and duolingo. Got A2 certification. Moved to Rio De La Plata and start immersion learning. Pandemic and having a child ruined my immersion learning, as did work from home, so, responsibilities are all at home, so I don’t get to leave the house for speech opportunities much.

    My Spanish is OK. My Turkish struggles. English is my primary language. While my spanish isn’t as good as my english, I think “learning a language as an adult is impossible” is bullshit, but accents are difficult to get rid of (I still say Üstedes)