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  • Do I just have shitty people around me or is this just what guys deal with?

    Those “two” possibilities might actually just be the same thing. This is what guys deal with BECAUSE people are shitty.

    People generally don’t go around looking to help others. People look for ways to make themselves feel better. People with a mantra of helping others may or may not be doing so, but they continue because it is helping them fill a hole in themselves.

    I’ve never divorced, but I have had breakups, and I got over them by embracing the hobbies I had before (in my case, programming). That might not be a lot but it’s a start.