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Honestly, just my two cents. I would say that you used to be homophobic or kind of are, but are trying to get better. That’s good. You also don’t seem to, from what I know, openly hate on LGBTQ+ people for who they are. While you hung out with bullies who were bigots in high school, you were young and you’ve grown from that. That doesn’t excuse being homophobic/transphobic “by association” and not being opposed to homo/transphobia, but you have probably changed.

reading a message and not replying

Idk what others will say, but imo no. From my experience, someone who leaves you on read is either busy a lot, doesn’t wanna talk, or hates you. If it’s the latter, he didn’t wanna date you or be your friend anyway.

I can say that I don’t remember my girlfriend ever leaving me on read. If she did, she was busy, and she would respond as soon as she could.