Ok so I cheated on my boyfriend, it was sporadic here and there it was largely due to my xan addiction but I have kicked that and been cali sober for a few years. Speaking of Cali, my boyfriend inherited a house in the San Jose Valley, it’s a nice house pool 3 stories counting basement it cost like a lot even though in Ohio it would be 300k max.

So we are getting back together I remember how much I love him and miss him the past 9 months without him and he is missing me to. I have a ton of stuff planned but what do you suggest in terms of things to do and mindset to have ?

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    19 hours ago

    Once a cheater always a cheater. You’ll do it again.

    Also sounds like you’re just wanting his house. I hope he doesn’t take you back, honestly.

    Edit: OP does onlyfans too……yeah nah just leave the poor guy alone.

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      18 hours ago

      He wants me and all the fun times and wholesome memories we will share together.

      Even shifting away from the sappy hallmark stuff for a second. I am ok with him fucking other girls he isn’t going to find that from any other girls. I trust him I know he loves me and he deserves to have fun.

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        4 hours ago

        And you just wanting his house and to not be alone.

        Men don’t want what you’re offering. Men don’t want cheaters who do onlyfans. Well no good men do.

        “Wholesome memories” lol. Good one.

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          Well he is wback with me also tons of men date women with onlyfans.

          He gets tons of fun perks

          A lot of sex including kinky roleplay like ddlg,rp and ap to make him feel powerful

          Dates and sex with my female friends

          Money, I am his paypig how many men would kill for that