30 something woman here, apparently I masturbate a lot compared to my friends.
I have to say “yeah once a week too” when they raise the subject ,when in fact it is multiple times a day. Husband would also do 2 times a day if he kept to his “normal” cadence. I know “whatever works for me” is right, but I’d like to compare to other people my age that aren’t my friends.
Are you circumcised? That might be why it hurts you? I don’t think it’s supposed to hurt after only one time
I’m not, but sensitivity ramps up significantly to the point of discomfort if I try to continue; “hurt” may not be the most accurate word but it sure feels internal, not, like, just due to a lack of lube or something.