• Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
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      5 days ago

      Bunch of reasons! The big ones are that I find shibari both beautiful and relaxing, and I’m one of those kink-as-intimacy people so that’s a big factor as well.

      • RepressedLemmyUser@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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        5 days ago

        It does go so hard when you flex, it just really puts into frame how flexible, fit, and kinky you are. And it looks good too! It is mind blowing.

        I can imagine holding you in one of those positions @_@

        And I can imagine I’d enjoy being bound like that too.

        You are really, really lucky.

        • Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
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          4 days ago

          Yeahh I don’t know about lucky, the whole “EDS is a common autism comorbidity” thing really sucks most of the time, but damn if being freakishly bendy isn’t convenient for kink…

          • RepressedLemmyUser@fedinsfw.appEnglish
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            4 days ago

            Ouch. It’s like everyone has EDS nowadays. You get nutrient defficiencies, and gut issues as well, should probably check for that.

            • Warl0k3@lemmy.worldOP
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              3 days ago

              Yeahhh, iirc they both expanded the conditions that are considered EDS and refined the diagnostic criteria so people are getting correctly diagnosed far more frequently. And thank you for the concern! I’m pretty well on top of it, I’m lucky and treatment is basically just a daily multivitamin and not bending my joints out of their normal range.
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              I’m pretty good about that first one, at least. That counts for something, right??