This might sound weird, and it’s not a fetish I promise. But I feel like there’s a sort of stigma behind one night stands with wheelchair users.
I wanna fuck them just like I’d fuck anybody else.
But there aren’t really that many chances to meet single wheelchair users, and I can’t really message one on a dating app and be like “yea I just wanna fuck you”.
One of the ways I could escape from the house when I was young was to volunteer at a respite facility for kids and teenagers with disabilities (a holiday for both kids and their carers).
Much of my time was just spent hanging out with other teenagers, some of whom were stuck in a chair, or had some other obvious physical thing holding them back.
I learned to be pretty handy in a chair, and could move around on flat surfaces in a permanent wheelie, and at least make up the numbers in basketball (though I was rubbish).
I met a lot of cool people through that, and got to help some of them have normal teenage experiences :-)