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      Been kinda casually dating for a while, those people are the worst and don’t deserve any kind of response.

      The only thing they will ever want is a one night stand on their terms and never talk again. These slums of people have completely destroyed my self confidence for a while, and I don’t even want to think about what kinda STDs I would have gotten if I slept with them.

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    9 hours ago

    I’ve had a few dudes approach me in a similar way. If you’re interacting in porno spaces online, it’s more common than you’d think, buuuut unfortunately still a lot less common than dudes who don’t treat me like a person.

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      They don’t treat you as a person on porno places and you are surprised?

      What kind of people do you think hang out there… Its not going to be people interested in your soul.

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      4 hours ago

      Are unsolicited pictures of Dick Van Dyke ok?

      Oh, pants, now I’ve asked they won’t be unsolicited. I need to really rethink my dick game plans!!

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      I dunno what age range of dick pics you get from people but I, for one, am glad I’m passed my dick pic sending era. You should definitely get treated like a person more often than it sounds like you do.

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        8 hours ago

        We love character growth!

        I guess I should explain a little more: when people approach me with the intent to sext, or whatever, most of them are terrible and disrespectful about it. People who just message me to be like “I like your art!” (i’m a porno artist) or whatever still comprise most of the messages I get and those people are generally good :)